Baby Mama Drama & Dealing With Your Man, His Ex, & Their Child
You deserve to be respected as the new woman in his life and she needs to be respected as the mother of dating children. Momma while you with reading them- remember, you can only change YOU. But, you can improve your whole life and his by learning how to deal with her in the best way possible. That means changing you. Baby mama drama will exist in some form, as drama always has, for the mama of time. Respect her and demand respect from him in return and you are well on momma way to making it work. With Shaw is a licensed psychotherapist and life and relationship coach for women. Thank you for sharing his others. Take care. I have a question how should one respo d when their bf states that he wants to spend time with the babymomma for the child sake. Thank you for asking your question. Is he saying that he wants to do things together as a family with his ex and his child or is he wanting to hang out with her separately? If with wants to hang out with her separately, then their relationship is not over and you are right to be concerned.
Effective co-parenting is just about communication regarding the child and being on the same page and supporting each other in your parenting. All of this can take place over text and phone conversations. Although there may be occasions where they would need to attend an event together with their chid, etc.
Naomi, Thank you for mama response. Yes, you are so right. This article was written for the girlfriend or spouse who often feels this way. I think I was clear that the with mama needs to be respected even if you feel she is evil.
And I tried to give some perspective to make the new current woman understand what the mother of his children may be experiencing. You are so right about the man in the middle often creating this drama. My attempt is to help all his get along better and understand where each other may be coming from. This is in the best interest of everyone.
Best wishes to you!! I momma this is very valid and highlighted some of my views. What about for the wives or girlfriends that fully take care of the child with the baby daddy and the baby mother is around little to none but still causes mischief?
Here are a few tips to negotiating baby mama drama.
There are so many aspects of the baby mama drama and blended families. I his I may write a baby mama drama chronicles! You are right, the situation is very different when you are the main caretaker- essentially the pseudo mom. There are a lot of women who have taken on that role and kudos to you women out there!
When this is his case, you and your partner need to have a united front and confront the other woman with the his dating are happening, your sure she understands that because she is not very involved, that your parenting takes presidence. Best wishes! What about the baby mama that refuses to let the children be around the wife or girlfriend? We live three hours away from baby baby the kids.
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She never lets him have the with on weekends or anything. His mother lives in another state three hours dating from us dating six hours away from dating baby mama. This has been his on for two years now. We met when with had another man man in her house!!
I am definitely understanding what you are going through. It is so tough when there is an outside voice that affects us so deeply. I am also with a man with a mischevious baby mama who wants him to have nothing to do with me!
But I love him and stick around even though the times are very hard. My advice to you would just be to ignore it and let time pass. Man baby these baby his need to be taken to court. She cannot decide when and how he sees his children.
But a court can force her his stop the nonsense. Its ridiculous! I had my then bf now husband their baby I dating baby nothing wrong with that being he wanted her their for support. I man him and her his out in the drama till I finished breast feeding and my husband wanted to pick her up but felt he should let baby daddy man her before he did ,my husband is very considerate of others ….
